Yes, You Belong in Higher Ed

The college experience can feel like an emotional whirlwind. There are plenty of high points: bursts of confidence and the simple joy of learning — but these bright moments are occasionally contrasted by difficult feelings, such as uncertainty or disappointment.

Another potential challenge? Self-doubt. Every college student occasionally wonders: Do I truly belong? The answer is almost certainly yes, but there's a lot more to consider.

Self-doubt is a deeply human feeling and not to be outright avoided. In fact, this provides a window into the college experience. Difficult questions inspire self-awareness, which could help you pursue higher education in a way that you find deeply meaningful. If not fully explored, self-doubt could give way to imposter syndrome in college. Viewed with compassion, however, this can actually spark a greater sense of belonging in higher education.

Ready to discover your place in the wide world of education? You'll be thrilled to learn that, at Nebraska Methodist College (NMC), we welcome you with open arms. We have put a lot of thought and consideration into personal challenges such as imposter syndrome. Through this effort, we've discovered how to support college students from diverse backgrounds. We're here to help you thrive in college and beyond.

Why Belonging Matters in Higher Education

College can provide a powerful sense of community. Whether gathering on campus or in virtual spaces, students share a common commitment to learning and personal development. This shared passion, aided by carefully cultivated programs or communities, can spark a sense of belonging that makes college feel uniquely fulfilling.

This is what sets college apart from self-study, and it's what keeps students motivated to push through when challenges emerge. NMC President and CEO Deb Carlson puts it best: "Belonging is important at Nebraska Methodist College because it helps every student and employee show up each day without fear of being their true selves."

Academic Benefits of Belonging

Students who feel a sense of belonging are more likely to feel connected to academic materials or experiences. This sense of belonging turns coursework into a grand adventure. Class discussions and projects no longer feel like to-dos on a checklist. They transform into enjoyable moments shared with fascinating individuals. This seems intuitive, but it's backed by research. Studies show that, when faculty members purposefully foster a sense of belonging, student achievement improves dramatically.

Social and Emotional Benefits of Belonging

Belonging is central to being human. We evolved in community, after all. Through eons, our social structures have allowed us not only to survive, but also to flourish. When we feel like a true part of the group, we feel supported and empowered. It's no wonder, then, that research links belonging to mental health. Belonging can alleviate symptoms of depression, improving well-being on a day-to-day basis and potentially far into the future.

Roadblocks to Belonging

Many students worry about finding community in college. They assume that various obstacles will prevent them from connecting with fellow students or from attending college in the first place. Although understandably distressing, these concerns should not stand in the way of enjoying a truly rewarding college experience.

“I’m the First in My Family to Go to College”

First-generation students enjoy an extraordinary opportunity, which is the chance to break barriers and to introduce higher education into their powerful family legacy. Along the way, however, they face obstacles that may seem invisible to other students. Many find it difficult to adapt to the social or cultural rhythms of the college environment — and they may feel 'othered' when fellow students appear to intuitively grasp the unspoken codes of college.

First-Gen Student Support Systems

If you are a first-generation student, congratulations are in order — you should feel proud of your passion and your drive. We want you to remember you are not alone. Research makes it abundantly clear: a massive share of today's students lack family ties to higher education.

Bolstered by this simple knowledge, you should already feel less alienated. Practical support is essential, however, and that's exactly what we are committed to providing at NMC. Our TRIO Student Support Services (SSS) will provide much-needed guidance as you step into the college lifestyle. Perks include individualized coaching, shared study spaces, and even group workshops that help you connect with fellow first-gen students.

“I Don’t Have Time — I Work and Have a Family”

All students face scheduling challenges, but some see increased demands as they juggle college coursework with full-time jobs or family obligations. These constraints may make it difficult to fully dive into opportunities such as networking events or extracurricular activities.

If reframed, however, these very scheduling challenges can actually be a source of connection. Working students make up a growing share of the contemporary student body, and often, they are eager for commiseration or even practical support. With a little help and some solid time management skills, college can introduce yet another source of belonging, complementing existing ties from the professional world or family life.

Balancing Work, Parenting, and Coursework

With so many responsibilities to juggle, you might wonder if there's any room in your schedule for group study sessions, student success workshops, or extracurricular activities. There's no simple answer, but with support and a carefully designed schedule, a vibrant college experience is certainly possible.

For parents, this might mean leaning on loved ones or even setting up babysitting exchanges with fellow working students. In the workplace, hybrid or online opportunities can make a world of difference, as can upfront communication with colleagues or supervisors. Again, this is where college-based support can prove transformative. Academic coaching, for example, can help you maximize your limited study time.

“I’m Not Sure I Can Afford It”

Economic concerns can spark a sense of alienation, often underscored by the persistent misconception that college is only for the financially privileged. Again, this is where a reality check is needed, as most students worry about college costs at some point. They are not always open about how they tackle tuition, but the vast majority actually use some form of financial aid.

Honest conversations may be most effective in combating this specific source of imposter syndrome in college. This begins by discussing concerns with financial aid advisors, who can validate your concerns but also provide practical solutions.

Scholarships and Financial Aid Support

Financial aid programs alleviate many potential sources of stress or isolation, with merit-based opportunities reinforcing feelings of belonging. After all, it's difficult to deny that you belong if you've been awarded a generous scholarship. Keep in mind that, while many scholarships are merit-based, group membership can also be influential — and this includes entrance status, bringing exciting opportunities to first-gen and transfer students.

The NMC Difference – Why You Belong Here

Now that you know how to cultivate belonging, it's time to find a college campus that makes this feel effortless. This is well within reach at NMC, where we strongly believe that every member of our college community has something important to offer. We prioritize belonging, cultivating this cherished quality through supportive faculty and helpful services that address all potential sources of imposter syndrome in college.

Supportive Faculty and Mentorship

Our instructors know how to support college students through encouragement, individualized guidance, and opportunities to connect. They bring not only expertise to the table, but also a genuine desire to help students thrive. In class, on digital platforms, and around campus, they connect authentically with students, going the extra mile to make students feel cared for and supported. We also provide a wealth of mentoring opportunities, which inspire connection on a deeper level.

A Community Rooted in Caring

Caring and compassion are core values at NMC. This theme appears repeatedly throughout our campus, as seen in the Caring for Students Fund, for instance, or the Caring Cupboard food pantry. Faculty and staff members go to great lengths to show they care. This ultimately trickles down to students, who come to care deeply about one another.

The Culture of Service at NMC

At NMC, we show caring through acts of service. We aim to foster positive change beyond our campus, bringing outreach to the broader community. We deepen our impact through partnerships with local communities, promoting service-learning while also encouraging everyday gestures to uplift fellow students and society at large.

Resources That Meet You Where You Are

Different students may require different forms of assistance at various points throughout their unique college journeys. To accommodate a diverse student body, NMC offers a range of flexible resources that meet students wherever they are.

Academic Resources

High-level coursework can seem intimidating, but we believe that all students can thrive if they develop the right study skills and mindset. We're here to help, providing tutoring services and academic coaching, free of charge.

Student Success Resources

Offering comprehensive support, NMC's robust student services address a range of potential challenges, including health and wellness, spiritual growth, parenting difficulties, and military concerns. These services are tailored to reflect differing student experiences, but together, they reflect our clear commitment to empowering students from all walks of life.

Nebraska-Specific Opportunities

While we are pleased to expand support via digital access, we also believe that tangible support can prove transformative. For this reason, we offer many Nebraska-specific services and opportunities. Our Caring Cupboard, for example, addresses the common issue of food insecurity and even includes infant supplies. There are also scholarships exclusively available to Nebraska residents, and mentorship and career opportunities that bring NMC's spirit of connection to the surrounding community.

Stories of Belonging

Many inspiring stories reveal how our NMC's caring approach cultivates belonging. Maybe you will see echoes of your own experience in one of these amazing anecdotes:

First-Gen Student Success Story

Anna Michael provides the ultimate example of overcoming adversity in the pursuit of a meaningful education. Born into a Sudanese farming village with limited access to medical care, she navigated refugee camps and numerous hardships, finally settling in Omaha and pursuing her long-held dream of becoming a nurse.

While pursuing your Bachelor of Science in Nursing (BSN), Anna found powerful support through NMC, making the most of the TRIO Student Support Services program. She, in turn, has brought extraordinary inspiration to fellow students and NMC faculty members.

Working Parent Balancing School and Family

As a working mom and committed student, Christa Reisdorff encountered many significant challenges on her path to graduating with a BSN. Her journey included not only the everyday ups and downs of parenting, but also the effort to find a kidney donor for her husband. During this difficult time, she took advantage of NMC's TRIO college student support program. We're thrilled to see her use her gifts to make a difference in the healthcare field.

Finding a New Why

Savannah Peters began her journey at NMC with the simple goal of making a difference. Midway through nursing school, she was diagnosed with breast cancer. Since then, she has re-committed to making a difference in nursing, but with a focus on oncology. She believes that the powerful support from the NMC community was key to giving her the "strength to stay in the nursing program."

Practical Tips for Students Questioning Belonging

Still struggling with feelings of alienation? There are many steps you can take to combat imposter syndrome or even use it as fuel for student success.

Join Student Organizations and Cohorts

Student organizations provide a low-stress opportunity for getting to know other kindhearted and passionate individuals. Cohorts can further enhance this sense of belonging, offering consistent support throughout the college journey. By getting involved, you could form lasting friendships while carving out a special place for yourself within the close-knit NMC community.

Engage in Online and in-Person Communities

Not all student communities are centered around campus organizations. Online platforms and discussions offer the opportunity to bring community engagement into the digital realm. This helps you feel connected even when you're busy with work or family life. You'll be amazed by how deep and inspiring these college-focused online conversations can be.

Use Advising and Mentoring Resources Early and Often

Student services should not be reserved for urgent situations. The earlier you get involved, the more supported you'll feel. Simply seeing a friendly face can help you feel grounded during the initial college transition — and this will make it easier to reach out if new academic or personal challenges eventually arrive.

Celebrate Small Wins Along the Way

Don't wait until final exams or graduation to congratulate yourself for a job well done. Every experience contributes to your professional journey and is worth celebrating. Pat yourself on the back whenever you challenge yourself. Perhaps you attended an advising session or participated in a service-learning experience. Celebrate others as well — this fosters community and helps you feel more connected to your fellow learners.

Overcoming Barriers With Confidence

Even the most supportive college community cannot always eliminate feelings of self-doubt. Some challenges require personal reflection or schedule adjustments. Think of these obstacles as additional learning opportunities and be willing to show yourself a little extra compassion along the way.

Managing Imposter Syndrome

Imposter syndrome can make the most capable or accomplished student assume that it's all a farce. It's a common problem on college campuses and even in the healthcare sector. It's okay to experience self-doubt at times, but ideally, this won't prevent you from going after your dreams. Acknowledgment can help, especially if you share your concerns with loved ones or fellow students. Continue to draw attention to your accomplishments, tracking milestones when possible while also celebrating with others.

Time Management Strategies

Time management is a consistent source of concern for today's busy students, especially working students, who may struggle to carve out time to form genuine relationships amid so many professional and academic activities on their personal to-do lists.

The good news? Simple adjustments can make a huge difference. First, work with an academic advisor to craft a realistic schedule. Next, use a planner or a time management app to block your schedule. Use research-backed study strategies to make the most of every spare minute. Don't forget to set aside time for self-care and social connection.

Navigating Financial Stress

Economic stress is common among college students, but it can be alleviated through careful budgeting and access to financial aid and other support services. Remember, the return on investment can be significant, especially if a college degree (and accompanying skills) ultimately promotes career growth. Get in touch with financial aid advisors to learn how you can make the most of grants, scholarships, and other opportunities.

The Bigger Picture – From Student to Professional

The sense of belonging you gain as a college student will ultimately transcend higher education, helping you feel more confident and connected as you step into your future career. This is especially important as you explore opportunities in the wide world of healthcare. At NMC, we want to foster an early sense of confidence so you can feel empowered as you make your mark in the healthcare sector.

How Belonging in Higher Ed Translates to Success

College belonging can have huge implications for everything that follows. As we've mentioned, it has a significant impact on academic success, enabling you to solidify critical skills that you can apply with confidence in professional settings. This also shapes networking; as a college student, you form early professional relationships that help you feel like a valuable part of the vast, yet closely linked, healthcare community.

Building Confidence That Carries

Belonging promotes confidence, which, in turn, helps you reach your full potential. This confidence carries over to the healthcare field, where nurses, allied health professionals, and healthcare administrators are more likely to make a positive difference if they themselves feel empowered. Confidence inspires ongoing growth and can even pave the path to professional leadership. It all begins with a connected and inspiring college community.

Final Takeaways: You Belong at Nebraska Methodist College

By now, it should be clear: there is a place for you at Nebraska Methodist College (NMC). Our strong network of college student support ensures that you always have a community to rely on. We want to inspire and empower you, so that you can do the same for others. Get in touch to learn more about our supportive campus community and our many student services.

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